Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Puzzling kids

Well, I'm not really sure what to make of Gwen. Not that you can ever "figure out" any baby in order to predict what they are going to do. But I'm beginning to think I just do not have a good napper in her. She does sleep WONDERFULLY at night. She goes to bed between 9:30 - 10:30 and wakes up 5:30 - 7:00. If she does get up for the morning, she is down again in an hour and takes her only good nap of the day. But for the most part, she does not nap for longer than 40 minutes. It is very hard to get anything done that requires a lot of time. But she is very happy to sit in the snuggly and watch whatever is going on. So at least that's good.

I went through Trevor's pictures and noticed that the first time we took Trevor to the lake was just before he was 4 months old. And I know when we took him, he did really well in the car. I'm pretty sure he was taking a good nap in the afternoon at that point. Not so with Gwen. But I have a feeling if we could just get her there, she would sleep through and go down for bedtime pretty easily. But with Trevor, he was up probably 4-5 times and fitfully slept at best.

So while I'm guessing that Gwen will take longer naps, I just don't see her napping like Trevor did. I hope I'm wrong, but even if I'm not, I'd much rather have her sleep well at night than during the day, because that way I can at least not feel so guilty about not keeping to her nap schedule if we have to go out and do something.

In other news, Gwen is getting to that really cute, immobile stage. I classify immobile as not crawling or rolling around with purpose. I haven't seen her roll from back to tummy, although she can roll to her side, and go from tummy to side, so I bet she could if she wanted to. But she has found that she loves to touch and grab her toes. And laugh a lot. I really have to get some video of it.

You know, I always think of things that I want to write about, but I get here and I totally forget about it. Why is that?

Monday, January 28, 2008

I may not be Louis Tully....

but there are still days when I wish I had become an accountant. (FYI he's the accountant for the Ghostbusters, played by Rick Moranis) Especially around this time of year. Tax season is so nice because it gives you plenty of time to recover from Christmas before having to file your taxes. The only reason I procrastinate even a day is because I don't want to have to wait a full year before doing them again next time.

But lucky me, I've been offered the chance to do a few other peoples' taxes (who will remain nameless). And it REALLY makes me happy. I love financial planning, balancing a checkbook, doing taxes, even if they aren't mine. The only downside is that I have to look at information that some people consider very personal. But really, who the heck cares. I don't expect anything in return. Hopefully it is just a little less stressful for the other person.

So if anyone isn't bothered by the fact that I would see your financial information, send on the taxes! I love it! And I promise not to do the following:

Louis: Ted! Annette! I'm glad you could come, how you doin', give me your coats. Everybody, this is Ted and Annette Fleming! Ted has a small carpet cleaning business in receivership; Annette's drawing a salary from a deferred bonus from two years ago! They got fifteen thousand left on the house at eight percent.

Sunday, January 27, 2008

The Wonderful World of Wheels

I have no idea when (hopefully I don't have to say if) we will make it to Disney World. I hope it is before Trevor outgrows his love of Cars. Or I should say before Disney has another hit like they did with Cars. I have heard and seen pictures of kids that went to Disney's MGM Studios where you can get your picture taken with Lightning McQueen.

So Russ heard on the radio that the World of Wheels was coming to town. They were going to have a lot of old style cars as well as Bumblebee from Transformers and Lightning McQueen! Yipee! I will say that entrance to the event was practically as much as a darn admission to MGM, to pretty much just see LMQ, but I think it was well worth it. I think Trevor would have stood next to his hero for most of the day if we would have let him.

There was also a racing truck which happened to have the number 8 on the side of it, but we could not coax him to get in for a picture. I'm pretty sure he was afraid it would turn on and he would have to drive away. But he did think that was kinda cool as well.

So thank you daddy for telling us about the show! Hopefully he'll enjoy that memory for years to
come.

Saturday, January 26, 2008

Sibling rivalry already?

Actually, I'm not all that surprised it is already, more that it even happened at all. But then, when I think about how possessive Trevor has been about his things, and not letting Gwen have even a moment of enjoyment out of her own toys, I guess I should have seen it coming.

I know part of the fact that Gwen loves to look at faces and whatever is going on is really a cool stage for her to be in. But add to it that I think she really likes and seeks out Trevor's face because she recognizes and sees it every day, and to me it is really cute. And there are times, like if I have to run to the bathroom, where Trevor knows that all he has to do is look at her, and she smiles, coos, talks to him, and is generally in a great mood. So if I have to do something like make a meal, or unload the dishwasher, I will put her in her swing and not turn it on because Trevor often is jumping on his trampoline right in front of the swing. It keeps her entertained for quite a while, and Trevor has lot of energy, so he'll be jumping for a long while as well.

However, if he's simply not in the mood to make her happy, he will purposely go around the couch and play with his trains so that she can't watch him. If he is eating breakfast, and she is sitting in her high chair, he is constantly saying, "Gwen, don't look at me.". LOVELY.

A big reason why I had hoped that this wouldn't happen was because I don't remember it happening with me. I was 4 1/2 years older than my brother, and I think because of that age difference, I just wasn't interested in him or his stuff. Maybe I'm just not remembering correctly or something. Unfortunately, I don't see Trevor stopping with this rivalry, especially if she starts getting old enough to move around and want to play with his toys. While I know we are going to have to try to separate some of the toys and let Trevor have his own toys that Gwen can't play with, I'm pretty sure that's not going to be the best way to win his affection.

Oh well. I'm thinking he's going to be an awesome big brother when he gets old enough to have to protect her from the kids that get her into trouble......I hope.

Thursday, January 24, 2008

Dreams

I'm not sure if babies have dreams, or when they begin, but I think sometimes when Gwen wakes up screaming it is because of a dream. This morning was one of those days. She was just howling, but I was able to settle her down and put her back to sleep right away.

Of course Trevor has been dreaming a lot too lately. Now he knows they are dreams, and can tell me about them. Although some times he seems to think that the dreams are what really can happen.

The first dream I remember him having was when we were in Mexico a year ago. He was talking in his sleep, so I asked him about it the next morning. I don't remember exactly what was said, but it was a happy dream so I knew when I asked him to go to sleep, he could dream about it again. That time it was something about Mater (from the movie Cars) being in the sky. I think it might have been like looking at clouds and seeing what they looked like. So when I ask him to dream again, I often say, "Why don't you dream about Mater in the sky?" It often puts a smile on his face.

More often than not his dreams are movie or video game related. But two nights ago, he was remembering his dream as he was eating breakfast. He told me he dreamt that his juice was really hot. I'm guessing this is because he has been having coffee (well more like milk drinks decaffeinated) and he has been frustrated because they have been so hot. So anyway, even though he told me that that was what he dreamed, he asked me again and again and why his juice wasn't hot. It is very interesting to hear a 4 year old's perspective!

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

I've been meaning to post

For probably 3 days or so now. 3 days ago, I would have titled the post "Someone save me from the screaming!" because Gwen was really into the screaming about everything. Not even often screaming in a negative way. She screams in delight, but it can be hard on the ears. Of course since I thought about writing it, she seems to turn off of it.

Today has been an awesome day. Although it took a while for Gwen to get back to sleep this morning, and she has been much gassier than normal, she has now taken two-hour naps today. I'm betting we are only a few months away (hopefully sooner!) to getting Gwen into a nice routine. Funny thing, is I'm sure as we get her into a routine, the summer will be here where Trevor will be out of preschool and we can't do anything with ECFE for her. But at least we can get out of the house, go for walks to the park....I just hope then it won't be me worrying because she has to keep us close to the house due to her naps. Goodness...if it isn't one thing it's another!!!

On another note about Trevor, it's with great sadness that I think we have given up the afternoon nap. I am, however, asking him to be upstairs for what he still calls a nap. Basically it's an hour where I can get some things done, if Gwen decides she will nap at the same time. But I hear I'm not the only one around Trevor's age with the naps going away. I hope I can get the same run of luck with Gwen too.

Monday, January 21, 2008

Minneapolis is #2!

According to Fit Pregnancy magazine, Minneapolis is the #2 city to have a baby in. They scored really well on things like Breastfeeding in public, Maternal and infant health risk, midwives and doulas but need work on infertility benefits. It is easy to see that they did really well on their birthing options and are pretty ahead of the curve. So for all of you living in Minnesota, don't go and move to have a baby now....

Another game of basketball

This image really kind of describes how the games go for me. The guy in the red is the "referee" who says who has the ball. The two other grown-ups are the respective coaches of the two teams and then of course you have the rest of the kids.

Actually, this is one of the few times Trevor is somewhat in with the other group of kids. Usually he is at the end of the court by himself, or racing one other kid. He does have his required one time a game that he brings the ball up or shoots a basket, but otherwise he is just off in his own little world.

It is very obvious to other parents that he is the youngest kid on the team because I seem to get a lot of "support" that he is doing really well for his age. But it is really hard to remember that although he isn't playing the game correctly, he still is learning and having fun. He really likes it. But I think for next session, we are going to go back to swimming lessons. He has been asking about them as well, and if we can work it out, I'm going to try to take lessons with Gwen at the same time. As soon as they allow them.

And one other thing about the weekend....YAHOO GIANTS! I may not usually cheer for them during any other point in the year, but I am a true Bears/Vikings fan. I root for the Bears and whomever is playing against the Packers.

Friday, January 18, 2008

Back into the cute phase

It has been a while, and I know part of it was the whole holiday upheaval, but Trevor seems to be back to his cute self. Which I really missed. Plus I missed how much we played together. But recently, he has been asking to play with me and I've been trying to spend as much time playing with him as I can.

Some of the things we do are: Cars (of course) - He's Lightning McQueen and I'm Mater. Trains - He's Thomas and I'm Percy. Hockey - I'm the cheerleader, he's the hockey player. I also have to make note that when he is asked who his best friend is, he says Mommy. Awwwww. Granted, I'm not his only best friend....also Daddy, Elizabeth, Alexander and a few other preschool classmates. But for now, I'll take it! It's cute...in my eyes.

Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Gwen's Baptism

So the other big event of the weekend was Gwen's baptism. Because she didn't sleep much the day before, she actually was sleeping up until we had to head to the church. So it was very nice to know that she would probably be awake for the ceremony.

We met with the priest, godparents Amy and Brian, and the organizer Judy. The priest who baptised Trevor was the same priest that baptised Gwen. So that was very nice. Also, all the Christmas decorations were still up because it was the last week of the Christmas season in the Catholic church. They were also doing a commemorative baptism honoring all the people that had been baptised the prior year. So they did a sprinkling rite at the start of church where we got to walk behind the priest as he sprinkled water over the congregation.

The homily was really sweet because the priest told us he had never baptised a "Gwendolyn" before. His homily revolved around names and what they mean. I knew I read what Gwendolyn meant when we chose the name, but I had forgotten. It means: Blessed white ring. Very appropriate that she was dressed in a white gown for the event.

After the homily, we did the actual baptism and then finished with rest of the mass. It was also nice to see that a few people I knew happened to be attending that mass so they came up to us afterwards for a congratulations.

Trevor did really well during the mass as well. For over a year now he's been very sensitive to loudspeakers and voices over them. But both for Christmas Eve mass and this one, he was very accepting of it. We were all talking about who was baptised when....because mommy and Trevor and Gwen were baptised when they were zero years old, but other people were older than that. Also, the gown that Gwen was wearing was also worn by Trevor, my two younger brothers, myself - 30 years ago TODAY, and my dad. So it has gotten some good use!

So that was our weekend. We have a few weeks break before we go on our trip to Boston! Yipee!!!

Monday, January 14, 2008

The hockey games

We went to two hockey games this weekend to watch Boston College play vs. the Gophers. I have to say it was a little weird because while I was very happy to cheer for BC and Tracy, when the Minnesota Rouser would play, it was hard to not join in. The first game, we were upstairs in the club level and most of the time Trevor was behind the enclosed room since he thought the arena was too loud.

We brought Trevor's hockey sticks and foam puck to play hockey while there, and he was very happy to yell REBOUND since he was still in the Basketball frame of mind. At least that applies to both sports! We were also surrounded by all the BC fans so when the cheers came for the gophers, they weren't as loud as when we went back on Sunday.

The first game ended in a tie. After the game we said hi to the team upstairs in the club box, and then went to Sally's - a local sports bar a few blocks from the arena. Trevor walked with Grandpa over to the bar and we drove the car over and were lucky to find a parking spot.

We were home I think it was about 6 o'clock. Gwen had a bit of a fussy day, and wasn't very pleased with everyone that wanted to get a good look at her. But had a very good night's sleep that night.

So we went back for the second hockey game after Gwen's baptism (that will be another post). And took another route to the arena. Right past Sally's - which Trevor recognized and told us about it before we said anything. What a smarty pants.

We arrived at the arena and unfortunately BC did not win this one. And because we were in the stands surrounded by gopher fans, it was a little confusing for Trevor as to how we are from Minnesota, yet we are supposed to be cheering for Boston College?

Up on the scoreboard, they had a lot of announcements as well as the words to the rouser which part of the song you spell Minnesota. That was T's favorite part. So now, when we play (or in my case watch him) play hockey, that is what we do. The Minnesota Rouser.

I wonder how it is going to be when we go out to Boston in a few weeks to watch another two games but no Minnesota Rouser will be there?

A couple's survey

1. What are your first names?
Kristine and Russell

2. How long have you been together?
We met on November 11th, 1995 – so it will be 13 years this November. Married on June 3rd, 2000….8 years this year.

3. How long did you know each other before you started dating?We didn’t know each other until 11/11

4. Who asked who out?
I don’t even know if that counts….we were set up on a blind date

5. How old are each of you?
Just turned 30 and he’s still 28

6. What are your astrological signs?
Capricorn and Aquarius

7. How tall are each of you?
He’s 5’10” and I’m 5’8”

8. Who's mother do you see the most?
Well, my mom comes over weekly to help with the kids, so I see her more often

9. Who’s siblings do you see the most?
Not really sure….I would guess his….at least during the summer months

10. Do you have any children together?
Yes…2 now

11. What about pets?
Yep…two cats…Piggy and Kermie

12. If so, what kind?
A grey fluffy girl cat and a black and white girl cat

13. Which bill is the hardest on you as a couple?
It’s always a bit of a shock when the credit card bill comes, but we always pay it off in full

14. How do each of you work?
He is a computer consultant, and I am a stay at home mommy

15. Is that what you went to school for?
Noooooooo

16. Did you go to the same school?
Only the same college

17. Are you from the same hometown?
Nope

18. are you from the same town now?
Yes, we live in the same home

19. Who is the smartest?
NICE….I would say we each have our strengths

20. Who is the most sensitive?
Well, I cry more, but again I think we both have our sensitivities

21. Where do you eat out at most as a couple?
I would guess TGIFriday’s

22. Where do you shop the most as a couple??
Target

23. Where is the furthest you have traveled as a couple?
Mexico or Hawaii

24. Who has the best group of friends?
Well, Russ hasn’t been able to get together with his “group” of friends for a while. So I guess by default my mom friends and their husbands might qualify for this one.

25. Who has the craziest exes?
Neither – There weren’t that many

26. Who has the worst temper?
I would say he does. I can get upset, but I usually don’t get angry so I don’t yell very often.

Sunday, January 13, 2008

Basketball Part II

So we had a CRAZY weekend...jam packed full of stuff. And full of stories. So I'm going to try to make my way through chronologically.

We had our second Basketball practice/game on Saturday morning. It was an hour earlier than last week, and I think that was a bit hard for Trevor. He got a lot of one-on-one attention by the coach to help him understand good technique for shooting and dribbling. It was very cute. And because of the practicing, he learned a new word that he was loving to use throughout the weekend. REBOUND....That was the word. Although for some reason, this morning he was talking about Lebound and Rebooth. As if they were two different words. But that they both meant rebound.

And of course my camera ran out of batteries. So pictures will have to wait another week. And so ends part one of the weekend.

Wednesday, January 9, 2008

Here we go....

I have a very happy announcement to make! Gwen just made her first physical milestone of rolling over! I honestly didn't even think she was going to because she doesn't like being on her tummy, but all of a sudden she got more tolerant and rolled over a few times yesterday.

She also has been laughing at me. I love that baby belly laugh. Along with everything, she just doesn't want to sit still anymore. She will try to turn around and face whatever is going on. Another squirmy wormy.

Now, if you haven't ever read the book Touchpoints by T. Berry Brazelton, I highly recommend it to any parent with a young child. In the book, it talks about how at every major milestone or growth spurt, you will notice a period of chaos where the baby is "working on" the milestone. This means they don't eat a lot, don't sleep a lot, and are generally a little more fussy. So it's kind of bittersweet. You are really excited about their new achievement, but you get NO sleep and it really tries your patience. I've noticed it a lot harder with two kids too.

Add to that, that Trevor has a touch of an upset tummy and it does not make for a fun house. Plus, we still have a lot going on this month and next. Not crazy like the holidays, but things so that it isn't exactly stress-free going on here.

But such is life....I am really enjoying both kids and all their accomplishments. I'm very lucky to be their mom ;-)

Sunday, January 6, 2008

A little update on Gwen

Well, my baby girl is now officially 3 months old. And while I'm still having a hard time remembering what Trevor was like exactly at this age, I do know a few things for sure. Trevor was rolling over at about 2 1/2 months. Gwen doesn't at all seem interested in that stuff. She is doing very well in her bumbo seat until she gets bored, and it seems like she only needs a little propping (is that a word?) and she will balance herself sitting up. It seems like it took Trevor until about 6 months before he was sitting up. I'm wondering if part of it is their personality. Gwen could sit and look at people's faces and SMILE forever. And with Trevor, I remember laughing because he always wanted to smile at things that were not alive. Lights, clocks, pictures, stars, etc. And Gwen also tries to have a conversation when one is going on.

Another thing...she is doing really well sleeping at night, and I think might be getting into a little schedule at napping during the day. I still can't put her in a crib for naps because she is a fitful sleeper (right now) but she will sleep for a few hours in the afternoon and a short nap right away in the morning which helps with Trevor.

We are off to Bubba's today, so maybe this week I'll get the gabbing video of Miss Gwendolyn. She really is a doll!

Saturday, January 5, 2008

It's time for Basketball!

Today was the first day of "Biddy Basketball" through the YMCA. You have to be 4 years old, so as soon as Trevor was eligible, I signed him up. Our only other team sport experience was T-ball from last year. But that was for 3 year-olds. In that group, Trevor was the oldest on his team and you could tell that there was a bit of a development difference between him and the youngest players on the team.

Looking at the roster for his basketball team, he is the second youngest, and the youngest is the coaches son. Given that the coach's son has practiced a little with dad before today, I would bet that Trevor has the least experience of any of the kids. And since he had the least experience, I would say he did great. It is funny, I think, because in T-ball, the parents were with their kids the entire time, and this time, it was just during "practice". As soon as the game started, Trevor did not want us to be around - only cheering from the stands.

Basically, he learned a little bit of how to dribble, got the hang of how to toss the ball upwards towards the basket, and that you get to run to the other side of the court when the ball switches teams. Seriously, the kid would have just loved to run back and forth in the court. Didn't ever have to touch the ball.

So next week I'll have to post pictures. He seems to be having a good time and wants to go back again next week.

Friday, January 4, 2008

Happy New Year!

Sorry I'm a few days late with this. I hope everyone had a wonderful new year! New Year isn't much of a holiday for me...never really has been. I'm not much for staying up late unless there is gambling, or good conversation. Not that the wonderful baby daddy isn't a good conversationalist, it's just we have conversations during the evening or day other days of the year. So staying up to see midnight just doesn't appeal to me.

I'm guessing that's why I also don't really care that much for new year's resolutions. I don't really need that kind of reminder or anything. I usually get to a point where I know I need to make a change and then do it. If I ever did make a new years resolution, I've forgotten about it. Along those lines, I have given up things for Lent before. I think that appeals more because you can go back to it (if you want) after Easter.

So anyway, things that are going on right now....we are starting up our new schedule for the year. Back to preschool Tuesdays and Thursdays, Bubba usually comes over on Wednesdays, and Fridays are music class. For the next two months we also have basketball on Saturday mornings. Hopefully that will make these cold winter months go by faster.

It's also hard to imagine, but I already have to think about preschool next year for Trevor. The preschool he is at now offers two options for 4-5 year-olds. Either Monday, Wednesday, Friday from 9:00 - 11:30 (same time as now, just different days) or Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday from 12:15 - 2:45. I'm pretty sure that he will be done with napping in the afternoon. Or at least wouldn't be asleep during this time anyway but I'm wondering which would be the least disruptive for Gwen. Right now I'm leaning toward the morning session because I'm much more of a morning person. I see myself putting Trevor in morning Kindergarten classes when he is 5. But I also know a few of his friends are probably going to be in the afternoon class of preschool.

Then there are Gwen's activities. I'm probably going to start ECFE with her the next session which starts either Feb or March. If it isn't whenever Trevor is in preschool, I have to pay for child care for him during those classes as well. And we can't forget his sports....whichever those may be. I wish we still had Gymboree in our area. I think they'd both enjoy that as well.

Oh well...I guess that's still a ways out. For now, I think I'll just worry about what's for dinner tonight. Happy New Year everyone!

Thursday, January 3, 2008

Welcome to the World Kevin!

Congratulations to the T family! Baby Kevin was born today via C-section at 12:49pm. He weighs 8lbs 10oz and is 22 1/2 inches long. Congratulations to Ann Marie, Gordy, Glenn, and new big sister Julie!

Here's wishing for a quick recovery!